What a strange title for a post. But that is the simple reason for my not having posted for so many days.
Do you know why I wear my Copper ring on my middle finger? Do you know the significance?
I really did plan to build a post around such a question. Let's just say that the idea and answer were equally dumb.
The primary reason was that I had a tiny guest over who demanded most of my time and attention. That meant my blog had to be neglected like a step-child. Kindly excuse the usage as it is the influence of having watched Cinderella and Snow White over and over again.
The past two weeks had been hands on training in Parenting and every minute a revelation. Let's not read too much in to the lines and just understand that handling a child is no child's play. Probably unlimited supplies of caffeine and energy drinks could help maintain stamina.
Cutting to the chase, the reason for wearing the ring on my middle finger is cause it is too big for my ring finger.
Sometimes we read too much meaning in to something so trivial that we get lost in our complicated interpretations and miss out the facts.
In simple words, relationships suffer with one misunderstood word.
The other thing I have realised is that ANGER for whatever reason, how much ever justified, is Harmful. The sooner you rid yourself of it the sooner you will find peace. Staying angry doesn't solve the problem and only spoils whatever good mood you could have had. Bottom-line Anger means Danger.
This I realised when I did all those things that i had refrained from doing when I was angry. The only person who knew I was angry was me, so no need to explain further that why anger does not cause the desired change.
There were more lessons in child management which basically gave me more jitters than confidence. I wouldn't be entirely wrong to call them Tyrants but experts say that it is just an un-escapable phase.
End of story.
:) good title! I guess 4 yr old has made you learn quite a few things!!!
ReplyDeleteI can vouch that the experience is more taxing than any other.. In one day you can learn so much than what you could in 3 years of articleship
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